Not as New as I thought
A week or so ago, da Missus and I spend a few days really getting the house clean. And for the most part, it has stayed that way.
One of the things we did was discuss how we would divide up some of the house work.
She would wash and dry the clothes, as long as I put them up was the deal. No discussion of who would round up and separate the laundry. Also, all of her undies, socks, and jammies would be put into one basket for her to put away.
Reality….I spent all weekend gathering, sorting, washing, drying and putting away laundry. We were seriously backed up. Probably did close to a dozen loads. She did none of it. Her basket of things is still out at the foot of the bed.
She would pre-wash all dishes and put them in the dishwasher, I would put them up.
Reality ….. Dishwasher is empty. It has been empty for a week. The sink is totally full, and dishes are now spilling onto the counter.
Each day, da Twinsies toys that had been dragged into the living room would be put away, by da Twinsies.
Reality…….Each day, more and more toys are being left out. I either put them away or have da Twinsies put them away first thing in the morning.
I really thought we had hit a turning point. I guess we have not. Looking back, I was really hoping that the entire housecleaning was not just because her new boyfriend was coming over.
Silly Me.
Maybe I need to realize that where I just thought I was her submissive, in reality, I am her slave.
