Wet Wednesday….En Mass
1. how thin is TOO thin for you in a lover? is it someone like kate bosworth, posh spice, or mark anthony? It’s Funny, what I look at versus what I chase. I think Nicole Kidman is the hottest thing in the world to look at, but to actual be with, I like them to be on the plump side.
2. how ‘large’ is too big for you in a lover? (i’m not going to list any names as terms like large, overweight, and big are all part of individual taste - but feel free to list celeb names, etc.) I have no clue, so much of the turn on is attitude.
3. if you were to get a new lover and this weekend was your first time having sex with them. how would you feel about them seeing you nude? is a look in the mirror in the buff cringe-worthy, or are you lookin’ pretty damn good? I am looking better than I have in years, but all I still see is I am too fat.
29 August 2007
ww#40 … emotional.
as a family member of a paranoid schizophrenic, please note that i am not calling anyone ‘crazy’ or demeaning them by talking about mental illness or physical disability in this week’s ww. i’ve lived through the pain of mental illness, as well as experienced its immeasurable joys…
1. have you ever dated someone or had a lover who had an emotional or mental disorder? how did that work out? if you haven’t dated anyone with an emotional/mental disorder, would you? I think that EVERYONE I have dated has had an emotional disorder.
2. have you ever dated someone/took a lover who had a physical disability? what, if anything, did you do differently to accommodate them sexually? if you have never dated anyone with a physical disability, would you? (remember - we’re not judging; some people are unable to handle a lover with a disability, and that’s a personal choice!) I am married to someone with a physical disorder. Fibromyalgia. Only thing it has done is limit contact at times.
3. do you have mood swings (hormonal or otherwise) that affect your relationship? if not, have you dated someone who "swung pretty hard"? Oh hell yes. I can be seriously moody. I try to keep t in check but that just makes everyone around me know I am in a bad mood because I am so quiet. And once again, I think nearly everyone I have dated has had serious mood swings. Maybe I attrat them. Who knows????
21 August 2007
ww#39
1. i was looking at the responses to a question on popsugar.com, where 90% of women had never had a one-night stand. have you ever had a one-night stand? did you see that person again? Yes, I have. And we saw each other socially for a whiule and never could get the timing right to hook up again.
2. what is the strangest or non-traditional place you’ve had sex? Middle of a collage stadium football field or Joe Poole lake in the middle of a Saturday afternnon on a holiday weekend. LOTS of people around.
3. is there something non-traditional (spanking, bukkake, bondage, midget porn, foot fetish, etc.) that turns you on? what is it, and have you had anyone freak out on you due to the fact that it turned you on? I like pain. Only a very few have know that and one was my Mistriss for a while
08 August 2007
w.w.#38 - timing.
1. what’s the shortest amount of time you’ve ever had sex (with a partner, that is)? It was so quick I am afraid that you would need nanoi seconds to time it
2. what’s the longest amount of time you’ve ever had sex? I once had an entire 3 day weekend of nothing but sex
3. what’s the longest you’ve gone without sex? 18 months
