Code Name D.A.D. … Defeat Anger Daily

March 27, 2008

Stolen….Cuz it was that funny

Filed under: Uncategorized

Joe Flirt had this on his blog…..

 

No, it is not a message, but …..

 

CLICK HERE 

March 25, 2008

Don’t tell da Missus … ;)

Filed under: Dating

Opportunities fly by while we sit regretting the chances we have lost, and the happiness that comes to us we heed not, because of the happiness that is gone. 

~Jerome K. Jerome

The follies which a man regrets most in his life are those which he didn’t commit when he had the opportunity. 

~Helen Rowland

Ah, the missed chance. Today, I decided that there was a young lady who I going to pursue. However, she was not available this evening to talk to, and I do not know if I will have the guts to try again. This is a common theme. There was someone I was making progress with in a chat room, but due to scheduling problems and me not trying hard enough to work through those problems, I may have missed my chance there. There is someone else, who I thought a connection was being established, but due to my lack of gumption and timing, I may have missed there also.

 

As always, this is a common theme in my life. I do not take the chance to ask someone out. I remember a conversation that I had back in another life time know as "High School"

 

Friend: Ask her out!!! The worse that can happen is that she will say no

 

D.A.D. : No, the worse thing that can happen is that she is so traumatized my me asking her out, that she will join a Femi-Nazi terrorist organization who manages to plot the over throw of our known government. The world will fight back against her ideals, and a thermo nuclear holocaust will happen. THAT is the worst thing that can happen.

 

Thinking

Filed under: da Missus

No man can lose what he never had.
Author: Izaak Walton

 

Is it better to only have a small part of something you love, even when you used to have it all? Or is it better to go without and to move on? 

March 19, 2008

Conversations in my head …

Filed under: Uncategorized

I cannot handle this.

 You are correct

This is too much

 Again, you are correct.

What do I do?

 What can you do?

I can only do so much, and I don’t even know where to start.

 Start with what you can do

But I can never get it all done

 That is true

So what do I do?

 You can only do what you can do 

What if that is not enough?

 If it is all you can do, it is all you can do and it will be enough. 

And if it is not enough?

 You can only do what you can do.

I can only do what I can do

 You can only do what you can do

I can only do what I can do. 

 

March 11, 2008

Whose the Crazy one??

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
                —Albert Einstein
I cannot say why I am upset. The exact thing happened that I knew was going to happen. Why did I know? Because it is the same thing that always happens in this situation. The same things are said, and then the same action counter those words are done. Now I have to decided, do I get upset at the one who hurt me / disappointed me? Or, do I get mad at myself for expecting a different result in the exact situation?????

March 5, 2008

From a different point of view…

If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches.

——-Rainer Maria Rilke (1875 - 1926)
It is truly amazing what can happen when you make the decision to look at the world in a new light. While the world keeps bee bopping along, you can now be a part of it instead of wondering why all are having fun with out you / in spite of you. Does this mean that bad things will still happen? Of course. Does this mean that I will still get hurt, or upset? Sure. But what it also means is that I can make it through. There are still many things in my life I am not happy with. There are still many things with da Missus and myself that need to be resolved. Will they get resolved? Yes. Will they be resolved how I want? I cannot answer that.

What I can say is that both she and I are working towards a positive out come. And while she will still do things I do not like or do things that may hurt me, I now realize that it is never intentional. It may be thoughtless, or careless, but not malicious.

While I never came out and said that, I realize now, that for a long time I may have been sub-consciously thinking that. Now I am not thinking that way…

Life is good.

Now if I could just get to “bang the hell out of that”

March 4, 2008

With thought…

While I go through this newest version of self examination, one of the things I need to make clear. I am totally, madly, passionately, completely in love with my wife.

That being said, I need every to understand that I know she is not perfect. I also need everone to understand that while this blog may be seemingly attacking her…that is not the point. 

The point is that I need to take more accountability, and learn to deal with how things are. Things are not and will not always be the way I like them. She does and will continue to do things that upset me.

 

However, I need to realize that when she does these things, she is just being human. She does not do any of these things out of spite or maliciousnous. 

 Most importantly, when she does do something that upsets me, I need to move on. I need to realize who she is, but most importantly…..who I am.

 

 

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.

 Wayne Dyer

 

My house

My house is a wreck. It is a mess, to the point I cannot stand it anymore. Whose faault?? Well, I blame da Missus. IS it her fault?? Probably not, but I like blaming her in the instance. Truth be told, it is both of our faults. And until someone changes, the house will remain I mess.

Today…..I make the change

Why am I writing this???? By putting this down on cyber paper, I hopefully can commit to it better.

 

  • Everday I am going to wash and put away a load of dishes until they are caught up.
  • Every day I am going to wash, dry and put away a load of cloths.





















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