Where do we go from here?
I am sort of seeing someone. It is hard to define since we have know each other for a long time. However, in the last week things have gone a different direction.
So now what do I do? This is serious.
Do I tell the ex? Seeing how da Twinsies will be seeing al ot of her probably it might be prudent.
What do I say the kids? Is she my Friend? Girlfriend? Lover?
And I cannot even figure how to deal with her side of the family……..
Uncharted territory for me……
Glad to hear this.
Probably no reason to talk to the ex about this. The twinsies only need to know she is a “Friend”. Her side of the family???? (the ex’s??)say what? how are they involved? Don’t stress on them.
This is only my 2 cents, so take it for what it’s worth (not much). I have no “Practical” experience with divorce, so take it as that.
It sounds like your doing good, and that is great to see.
Comment by alfro — July 11, 2009 @ 2:36 pm
Just sit back, relax, and let the winds take you where they will.
I will admit, I would love to be a fly on the wall and watch the family dynamics. As far as me and the kids, as long as you are happy, the rest will be too. And my advice, call her your friend to the kids. If she is more, then she should also be a friend.
Me personally, I am happy you guys are finally exploring this.
GAH! Our baby lost her first tooth! (Not dealing with that well.)
Comment by Amy — July 13, 2009 @ 6:51 pm
“her side of the family”?????
THAT BAD, huh????
Comment by Zette — August 20, 2009 @ 11:13 pm