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July 8, 2008

TMI….#141. Will do THIS weeks later.

1. Do you believe in marriage? WOW. What a tough question. But looking at it, yes I do. I see my parents who have been married 40 yrs and are still giddy over each other. I see othe people like them. I know it can work. AN with my religious beliefs (Basically Catholic) I sort of have to.

2. What is marriage to you?
It is supposed to be a partnership. It is supposed to be two people cleaving into a single unit

3. If you are married, why did you do it? If you are not, why have you not married?
Why? Truthfully, we got married when we did because da Missus was pregnant. Now we went on to lose that child. But we were already planning to get married. We wanted to show our commitment to each other, to God and to others around us.

4. Do you believe in divorce?
Funny to say this seening how I am divorced once and currently seperated, but I really do not believe in divorce except for extreme circumstances. Obviously, if you spouse turns into some who an alocoholic, drug user, rapist or beats you, of course I think divorce might be the only option. But I also think that divorces are to easy to get. I believe that too many people look as that as the easy option. A lifetime commitment is work. Hard, hard, miserable work at times. But with the work some rewards should come. If both partners are willing to give and work.

5. If you are divorced, why did you do it? If you have not, are there certain circumstances under which you would agree to a divorce?
Why did I get divorced? Well, I just figured it was a good idea once she kicked me out.

Bonus (as in optional): [ed note:I am not trying to spark a get political debate, I am much to superficial for that] Do you believe that same sex marriages are a threat to traditional marriages?

*SIGH* This is tough for me. And it is probably a matter of semantics, but I do not like the term "marriage" used for same sex couples. While I support their unions, and beleive they should have all the same rights as "traditional" married couples, it is just the use of the word "marriage" that bothers me. It is probably my religious up bringing on that one. But to answer the questio, no, I do not think that they are a threat to traditional marriages. The only thing they are a threat to is bigotry and closed mindedness.

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November 20, 2007

TMI Tuesday #110 But in a crappy mood

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1. what’s the sexiest gesture a woman can make? Each woman has a different thing. For some it is a look, others it could be an action.

2. what are 3 inevitable things about you? Loyal to a fault @ times. Humour. I get left in the end

3. what do you want . . . . now? Stability and a blow job!!!!!! Sorry, could not resist.

4. what asset do you have besides the physical and the material? Sorry, I cannot come up with much right now. I guess the fact that I will stick with someone once I get close to them through it all. Oh yeah, and I make GREAT chocolate cheesecakes

5. describe a sexy mind. One that has a sense of humour, creative and non-inhibited. One who can have fun.

Bonus (as in optional):What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving? My kids, da Missus, my friends and family. I guess in the grand scheme of things I should say I am thankful to have a job, but the way I have been treated recently it is tough to remember that.

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November 13, 2007

TMI Tuesday in Bulk….

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1. Have you ever met a fellow blogger in person? Yup
2. Did you ever play an innocent game of "I’ll show you mine if you show me yours"? How old where you? I’m sure I did, but I don’t really remember it. I know once as a very young child I reached down a female friends shirt to "tell her belly button goodybe" I was about 3 or 4
3. When did you get your first not so innocent kiss? Summer of my 3rd grade year I think
3a.If your partners are no longer of the opposite sex, when did you get that first kiss?
4. Have you ever awoke with someone who’s name you did not remember? Not yet
5. Have you ever let someone else wash you while you were perfectly capable of doing it yourself? OMG YES!!!!! And it is a serious erotic experiance

Bonus (as in optional): What makes a great first date for you? Experiencing a connection both physical and mental with the other person

As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no." Happy TMI everyone

11.06.2007

TMI Tuesday #108 (Halloween Edition)

Thanks for all the reminders! Tuesday follows Monday for the second week in a row.

1. Do you believe in ghost? If so have you every seen one? Yes, and Yes
2. What’s the scariest movie you ever saw? The Ring
3. If you were given a house that was free would you accept it if it was haunted? Sure as long as I have a Super Quirter water gun with plenty of Holy Water in it
4. If you were given a house that was free would you accept it if the last person had been murdered in it? Sure…How often does lightening strike in the same place???
5. What was your most favorite costume you wore for Halloween? Pirate

Bonus (as in optional): What’s your most memorable Halloween memory? This one actually….

As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no." Happy TMI everyone

10.30.2007

TMI Tuesday #107 (Late edition)

Ack!!! I forgot it was going to be Tuesday.

1. If they kept stats of your sex life like they do in sports, what would you lead the league in? what all time record would you hold? Misfired???? Fastest Finish??? Not proud of either….

2. What song gets you in the mood to have sex? best music to fuck to? best music to make love to? Different Music for different Moods….I can Fuck OR Make love from anything from Jimmy Buffett to Metallica to George Straight to Fergie. All depends on my mood, my partner and the place.

3. Where is your favorite place to have sex in your house/apartment? Typically I would say in the bath / shower, but our at this house it just does not work. Other than that, I woulkd have to say in the living room

4. (girls) Have you sent or given your used panties to a guy? Do you know what happened to them? (guys) Have you taken/asked for a girls panties before? What did you do with them? (non-breeders) What is the protocol for this "tradition"? Yes……Kept them in a drawer.

5. What makes a kiss a great to you? The perfect mixture of hard and soft, passion, small amount of biting and lots of action

Bonus: Who pays for a date? If the girl asks a guy out, does she pay? If you are interested in same sex partners, how do you determine who pays? I am old fashion. I am the guy, I ask her out and I pay. If I cannot, pay I do not ask her out

As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no." Happy TMI everyone

10.23.2007

TMI Tuesday #106

1. What are your 7 favorite tactile things that turn you on? Sex (like oral, or penetrative) cannot be an answer. (Examples: silk, light tickling, etc). In no particular order 1. Biting 2. silk 3. scratching 4. partial sensoty dreprivation (Blind folds, hear plugs etc) 5. watching 6. restraints 7. Nothing freaky though….LMAO
2. What are your non-genital errogenous zones and what do you like done to them? My ears, licked nibbled MMMMmmmmmmm
3. What sounds get you sexually charged? There is nothing more erotic than the sound of a woman orgasming…..
4. After losing your virginity, what is the longest you’ve gone without penetrative sex? 18+ months. I refer to that time as "The First Marriage" ***SHUDDER***
5. What is your least favorite sexual position? Why don’t you like it? Her on top, facing away… Ummm…I just do not "bend" well for that position.

Bonus (as in optional):If you could sexually dominate or submit to 5 people - any 5, currently living or deceased - which 5 would it be?

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October 16, 2007

TMI Tuesday #105

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See the HUGE TMI catch up below…..

1. What was the first movie you saw on a date? Lady and the Tramp

2. Who was the first person you kissed on a date? [First name is fine.] Her name was Shasta

3. Where was the first place you ever "parked" (on a date)? A little hidden corner of Colleyville, Tx

4. Have you ever gone on a date with someone you met via the internet? If not, would you? Yes, more than one actually

5. What is the most romantic thing you have done on a first date? Silly and old fashion as it sounds, the date itself was nothing more than a dinner and a movie and us going out to the lake to talk. We ended up talking and watching the sun come up.

Bonus (as in optional):Describe the best date you have ever been on. Luckily, this happens to be the first date I went on with da Missus, so me telling about it will not get me in trouble with her. After chatting online for 6 months, we met in a hotel room in Little Rock. We went to the Zoo and out to eat a couple of time. Yes, the bulk of the weekend was spent having sex, but even during the non sex parts was the best times I have ever spent with someone. Of course, the trip to the Zoo was hilarious. The people wandering around the zoo were MUCH more entertaining than the animals. There are some FUNNY LOOKING PEOPLE in Little Rock Arkansas.

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October 11, 2007

BULK TMI

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1. Wash up, cuddle or fall asleep? I prefer to cuddle.
2. Have you ever fake orgasms? Nope
3. In any 24 hour period, what is the most number of time you have ever had sex? 10 or 12
4. Have you ever had sex or give/received oral sex while you were driving a car? Yup
5. What do you think the average number of sexual partners your sex has in their lifetime (so for me a male)? Do you think most people lie when asked? Some have 1 some have 100’s. Cannot say
Bonus (as in optional):Can men and women be "just friends?" (Explain) Yes, some people just do not have that spark.

As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no." Happy TMI everyone

10.02.2007

TMI Tuesday #103

1. Early bird or night owl? Night Owl
2. If you could only be one, would you rather be smart or good looking? I am already smart, I would like to try good looking
3. Do you gossip? Isn’t that what blgging is????
4. On a scale of 1-10, how adventurous are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) 8
5. On a scale of 1-10, how good a kisser do you think you are? ( ditto ) 4

Bonus (as in optional):What do you consider the biggest turn on out of the following? a) lingerie b) movies c) toys d) role playing e) leather f) none of this does anything for me Lingerie!!!!!!!

9.25.2007

TMI Tuesday #102

1. Who did you think you would marry in elementary school? Her name was Megan Thomas. She moved after 3rd grade.
2. Which muppet is your favorite? Why? I always liked Fozzie the bear
3. Which politician would you most like to screw? [For pleasure or revenge] Eww…..NONE
4. How did you first find the g-spot? Accident a few times, thing Coaching….THANK AmyElle
5. What is the best costume you’ve ever worn? Pirate outfit….

Bonus (as in optional):Does pornography liberate or deteriorate society? Both, Neither. It just IS. It is what the people make of it and make it

9.17.2007

TMI Tuesday #101

1. What is one thing a your significant other could do to you to rock your world? There are so many things. Right now, a non-asked for. Noquestions ask, no need to return the favor Blowjob. Damn she is good at those.
2. Which super power (ability to turn invisible, ability to read people’s thoughts, or invulnerability) would you take and why? Right now, I want to be invulnerable. Especially to emotional pain.
3. Would you rather be tied up or tie someone else up? Why? Both, all depends on parner mood and moment.
4. What is your best physical and non physical asset? LMAO….Right now, I am not sure I have one of either.
5. If they were naming new Dwarves beyond the seven what would your name be and why? Let see….I am going to have fun with this. The new Dwarves…Kinky, Leather, Chains, Lace, Swallow, Tongue and LongOne. I want to be…..KINKY

Bonus: What’s the most embarrassing thing you ever bought? Beleive it or not, I still would get embarressed buying pads / tampons. Thany Gawd da Missus had a hystrectomy

As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no." Happy TMI everyone

9.11.2007

TMI Tuesday #100

In honor of the reaching the century mark (and since I don’t think any of the current players were around at the beginning), I have pulled some questions from the early days.

1. Where was the first place you ever had sex? Moody Hall, Tarleton State University.
2. Does size matter? (open to interpretation boys and girls) They say it doesn’t but ….
3. Have you ever had sex in your office or your place of employment? Yup!!!!!!!
4. Ever been skinny dipping? Yup
5. Top or bottom? BOTH

Bonus: Where were you September 11, 2001? What were you doing when you first heard about the twin towers? Sleeping in my old Apartment. Phone would NOT stop ringing everyone trying to tell us.

Happy TMI everyone

[Edit: I forget this little bit of encouragement ‘As always, answer in comments or link us to your blog. Feel free to expand on your answers past "yes" and "no."’ and some folks finally play in the comments section. Thanks and others please feel free to join in.]

9.04.2007

TMI Tuesday #99

1. What did you eat for dinner yesterday? No Clue
2. How much cash is in your purse/wallet right now? None
3. What have you done to avoid being flirted with by someone you didn’t like? Avoided them like the plague
4. Do you believe the theory "Once a cheater always a cheater"? No
5. Describe your sex life in two words. Gonna skip this one

Bonus (as in optional): Would you/have you ever paid money for sex? Never have, but thought about it

8.28.2007

TMI Tuesday #98

1. What is the best relationship advice you’ve ever received? Hey, just because you are fucking her does not mean you have to fall in love with her
2. How many people have you dated at once? Dated? 2. How many people do you think it is acceptable to date at once? No clue
3. What made your worst kiss so bad? A combination of bad breath and a seeming lavk of interest. Her tongue just went into my mouth and laid there.
4. Can a relationship last if the sex is bad? Well, mine have lasted a while, and I know I am bad
5. What one thing would you like your partner to do every time you have sex with them? I always want to receive oral action

Bonus (as in optional): What is your secret weapon to lure in the opposite sex? Desperation? Pity? I guess I have none.

Happy TMI to all!

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August 1, 2007

TMI Tuesday #94

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1. Toilet paper: over, under, or what the hell are you talking about? I prefer it sitting on the coubter. Our holder for me is tough to get to.

2. Toilet when you are done: everything up, seat down but lid up, everything down? I try to put it down.

3. When was the last time you kissed someone not your significant other? [I am talking about a kiss with some gusto not just a little hello or goodbye peck]. Sunday Night….

4. Would you rather have you significant other (this can be a hypothetical SO) have sex with someone else or fall in love with someone else? [You have to pick one.] Oh this one is EASY since I am and have dealt with both. Her having just ex is a whole lot easier to deal with, compared to now where she is in love.

5. If you had $1,000,000 to give away, how would you divide it up? Who and how much? I think my bill collectors would take it all anyway. 70% back to my parents and the rest to charity.

Bonus (as in optional):

Tell us something that very few people know about you.
WOW…..What all is left after so many TMI’s….How about this…..How about my Readers ASK me specific questions and I will answer them

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July 25, 2007

TMI Tuesday #93

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1. Leather, lace or silk? Wow, what a fun question!!! Can I say all of the above? Depending on the mood/person/situation. Leather has a place and time. Lace probably has the best visual appeal for me to see, but I LOVE the feel of a partner wearing silk.

2. Do you subscribe (or regularly buy) to any "dirty" magazines? Which ones? Nah, I found this REALLY cool thing called the "internet". It has free porn EVERYWHERE

3. Have you ever had sex in water (tub/pool/lake/ocean)? Tub Yes / Pool Yes / Lake Yes / Ocean Not yet, but looking for someone to volenteer

4. The three words that best describe you in bed are ____, ____, and ____. Three words that best describe your most recent partner in bed are ____, ____, and ____. Due to my own issues right now, I am going to skip this one

5. Did you lose your virginity as an impetuous youth, "to prove that you loved" him/her, because of a romantic gesture, a newly wed or other (please describe because I can’t think of what an "other" might be)? I lost my virginity because I set out specifically to loose my virginity.

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July 10, 2007

TMI Tuesday….Catch Up

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TMI Tuesday #91

1. Who was your childhood hero? I really do not remember having a childhood hero. Was probably either my Dad or Spiderman.
2. Have you ever had sex with someone who has a myspace page? Yup…I mean, doesn’t EVERYBODY have a MySpace page now?
3. What fantasies have you openly told your partner about? All of them.
4. Have you ever said you love someone but didn’t mean it? Yup
5. Have you ever woke up in the morning and did not know the person who was next to you? Yeah…..But it wasn’t anything exciting. Kind of a group sleepover type thing.

Bonus (as in optional): Do you remember a time when you were having sex that you smile or even laugh about now? Do tell….There was this weekend in Little Rock……

TMI Tuesday #90

1. Describe your first kiss. IT was outside a church dance. She was a red-head and a year younger. It was the summer before 5th grade. Keep On Loving You - REO Speedwagon was playing…….I leaned in….We had the horrid "nose bump"
2. Should a person’s pubic hair be trimmed, shaved, or just grown out as the jungle God intended it to be? While I have preferencence in what I see, MOST should wear it as they wish. Now if it takes leaving a trail of breadcrumbs to find your way out, or it is so think you cannot find the target, GET OUT THE WEEDWACKER!!!!!!!
3. What’s the best super-hero comic book movie ever made? Not a Clue…..Spiderman was pretty good
4. Coke or Pepsi? Given those 2 choices….Coke……..Otherwise give me a Dr. Pepper
5. Have you ever been caught masturbating? Define…."Caught"…….LOL….OF COURSE
6. Which way do you lean your head when going for a kiss? Usually to the right, but I try and see where she is headed to avoind the infamous NOSE BUMP
7. Jockstraps, sexy or no? Gawd, I mis-read that….I thought it said "Jockey"….."Little dudes whereing bringht silk PJ’s on horses do NOTHING for me….OK…..Jockstraps don’t do a lot for me either though….

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever used the excuse, "Oh, I was so drunk that night, I don’t remember a THING!" It was NOT an excuse…I was that drunk

TMI Tuesday #89

1. Does the carpet match the drapes? If we are talking house decorations….Nope……Otherwise, yes
2. Have you ever used personal information about someone to blackmail them? Not intentionally, but if I have to…..
3. What is your favorite thing to lick? That little soft spot about an inch down and behind da Missus’s ear…Right where her neck starts.
4. Have you ever had sex in a place of worship? (i.e., church, temple, mosque, etc.) OK NO……Even I have SOME morals…..
5. If you watch video porn, do you buy it in a store, from a catalog, online, or download it? LINK!!!
Store or downloads…..
Bonus (as in optional): How often, if ever, do you "fake it?" Ummm…..Never

TMI Tuesday #88

1. If you were to face the Wizard of Oz, would you want more courage, more brains, or more heart? Courage….Definately more courage
2. Have you ever gone to court for anything? What for? Yup….Traffic Tickets….Bad Check…. Being in the wrong place @ wrong time (Mass Arrest)
3. What was the last thing you did that you previously told yourself you wouldn’t do? Smoke……AGAIN….DAMMIT
4 Did you ever have a summer fling while on vacation? ***SIGH*** Yup…..
5. Have you ever done anything sexual with someone who’s name you never knew? Not yet……

Bonus (as in optional): What is the best way to mend a broken heart? Alcohol and mindless sex

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June 12, 2007

TMI # …..I forgot

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1. What is the meanest thing you’ve ever done/said to a lover/loved one? I had an affair.
2. Have you ever had sex on an elevator? Sex, No……Deep kissing and groping, Yes
3. Have you ever lied about a rash and said it was a birthmark? OR Have you ever lied about a birthmark and said it was a rash? No and No
4. Have you ever had sex on a beach or in the water at a beach/pool? In a lake, in a public Hotub, In a pool. I guess that would be a YES
5. How old are you? 36 How old do you feel? =P Due to certain situations, older than I want to
6. Have you or your partner been injured so badly during sex that you/they had to go to the hospital? No, but DAMN….I am willing to try
7. Have you been to a strip club or "titty bar"? Yes (Hooters does NOT count.Been there though) If so, did you get a lap dance? Not only have I had a lap dance, I have had my GF / Wife pay for it for me.

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June 5, 2007

TMI #86

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1. Should guys wear pink?
Why not? It is just a colour. I know that I should not, but that is based on my skin shading. It makes me look TERRIBLE.

2. Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?
Depends on the mood and the moment

3. What is the first “non-physical” feature you tend to notice about a person you find attractive?
The ability to communicate, with anyone.

4. Have you ever showered with someone of the opposite sex?
Does a bear shit in the woods?

5. Would you rather receive amazing oral sex or have amazing sex?
Feeling rather selfish at the moment. SUCK ME DRY!!!!!!!

Bonus (as in optional): If you could say anything you wanted anonymously to anyone, without identifying that person, what would you say?
Nope….ain’t touching this one with a 10 foot pole. They may read this

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